What to Write in a Christian Wedding Card: A Guide to Expressing Your Joy and Faith
Congratulations to the happy couple! Choosing the right words for a Christian wedding card can feel significant, as you want to express both your joy and your faith. This guide offers suggestions and inspiration for crafting the perfect message.
Finding the Right Tone:
The tone of your message should reflect your relationship with the couple. Is it a close friend, family member, or acquaintance? A more formal tone is suitable for those you don't know well, while a close friend might appreciate a more personal and heartfelt message. Regardless, your message should always be positive, uplifting, and celebratory.
Common Themes and Phrases:
- Blessings and Prayers: "May God bless your marriage with His love, grace, and unending blessings." "Praying for a lifetime of love, joy, and faith together." "May your life together be a testament to God's love."
- Scripture References (Use sparingly and thoughtfully): A short, relevant verse can add a powerful touch, but avoid long quotes. Consider verses like Genesis 2:24 ("Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh."), Ephesians 5:22-33 (on marriage and submission), or Psalm 127:3 ("Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of the womb a reward."). Only use verses that genuinely resonate with your relationship with the couple and the overall message.
- Celebrating Their Union: "Wishing you both a lifetime of happiness, love, and faithfulness as you begin this new chapter in your lives together." "So happy to celebrate your special day and the beautiful union God has blessed you with."
- Encouragement and Advice (Optional): "Remember to always cherish each other, support each other's faith, and pray for one another." "May your marriage be a beacon of light, reflecting God's love to all around you."
Addressing Specific Situations:
- If you're close to the couple: Share a cherished memory or inside joke. Express your love and support for their journey together.
- If you're not as close: Keep it concise and heartfelt. Focus on expressing your happiness for their marriage.
- If the couple has asked for specific prayers: Acknowledge their request. For example, "Praying for [specific request, e.g., guidance, patience, strength] as you embark on this journey."
Examples of What to Write:
Option 1 (Formal):
Dearest [Couple's Names],
Warmest congratulations on your wedding day! May God richly bless your marriage with love, joy, and a lifetime of happiness together. We pray for His continued guidance and grace upon your union.
With love and blessings, [Your Names]
Option 2 (Informal, close friends):
[Couple's Names],
We are so incredibly happy for you both! Watching your love grow has been such a blessing, and we know your marriage will be even more amazing. May God continue to shower you with His grace and love. Wishing you a lifetime of laughter, adventures, and unwavering faith together.
Love, [Your Names]
Option 3 (Including a Scripture Verse):
[Couple's Names],
Congratulations on your wedding! May your love for each other grow stronger each day, reflecting the enduring love of Christ. As Proverbs 17:6 says, "Children's children are a crown to the aged, and parents are the pride of their children." May your lives together be filled with blessings and the joy of building a family honoring God.
With love and blessings, [Your Names]
Remember to:
- Sign your names neatly.
- Use high-quality card stock.
- Consider adding a small, appropriate gift.
By thoughtfully considering the couple's personalities, your relationship with them, and your shared faith, you can write a Christian wedding card that is both meaningful and memorable.
